Let's see... Who am I... what a tough question :) I'm recently divorced and like most, frustrated with trying to meet people in bars. While I have a good time and have a fair amount of friends, I'm not very good at "chit chat" (I've been out of practice for a lot of years). Where is the passion? Where is the long discussions about the meaning of life? Where is the anticipation of that first kiss? Where oh where, is that spark that makes life more than a journey? That being said and trying not to sound like a complete nutcase, a little more about me :D I'm educated and love learning for learning's sake. I'm successful by most measures of the term. I try to keep myself in shape and work hard at it, but I certainly don't meet the standards of a hard body (damn that chocolate and wine). I've been told I'm attractive, but always have a hard time accepting that (you have to be the judge). I have blond hair, blue eyes, six feet tall with broad shoulders. I've finally reached that point where I've done pretty much what I've set out to do... but still feel unfulfilled. Now you know my life in a few short paragraphs.[SIZE 10][/SIZE][COLOR green][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person What I'm looking for... Another tough question...

Being recently divorced after a long marriage, I'm not looking to jump into anything too serious. I'm looking for good friends and some companionship. If it turns into more, great but I'm not in a hurry at this point.

My ideal person, is a person that is the complete package. Beauty, intelligence, fitness, sensual. I'm very selfish... I want it all. I can't say what's the most important. At times I'm infatuated with youth, other times with an intelligent conversation, a fit woman in spandex always makes me smile, in general a woman that makes other women jealous.

So while I can't always describe what I'm looking for I know I can feel it when I see it.

Take my breath away...

John

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I see you across the bar. Well actually I don't see you,
I see your ass as you're bent over the pool table making
a shot. Those tight jeans and high heels make your ass mesmerizing.
<br><br>
After my buddy jolts me out of my beauty induced stupor,
I continue our dart game. My eyes wander frequently over
to the pool table as I can't help but watch your every
move. "Lucky son of a bitch" I think to myself
about the guy that's playing pool with you. <br><br>
During one of my not-so-subtle glances your way, you catch
me looking at you and give me a quick sly smile as you turn
and line up your next shot. My pants get a little tighter
and I remind myself to calm down and try to hit the damn bulls
eye. <br><br>
A few more friends show up and since it's my time to buy,
I work with the barmaid to get everyone's drink and
pay for it. In the process I forget to look your way for a few
minutes. My heart falls a little when I finally do, as you
aren't there anymore. "Oh well", I think
to myself, "at least I got to see a truly gorgeous woman
tonight". It's almost like watching a beautiful
sunset, the splendor doesn't last long but you appreciate
it all the more knowing it's transient. <br><br>
As I try to burn your image into my memory, I realize that
I'm way over due to hit the bathroom. The bathrooms
are down at the end of a fairly long hallway, and I find myself
walking fairly fast. As I approach the woman's bathroom
door, it quickly opens and a form pops right in front of me.
I'm not paying that much attention and collide with
the woman. I instinctively grab the woman to keep her from
falling and notice the nice flair of her waist as one hand
goes to her lower back. The other hand goes to her shoulders
and neck to as I cradle her as she falls backward. <br><br>
I'm flustered as I bring her back to her feet as I start
apologizing for my clumsiness. I'm halfway through
my third apology when my voice stops as I realize it's
the woman I've been watching earlier. She's even
prettier up close and I find her perfume intoxicating.
<br><br>
I somehow manage to stammer an offer to buy her a drink to
make up for my full body tackle and my heart beats faster
when she smiles and accepts. We quickly introduce ourselves
as we grab the nearest table. I go to the bar to get our drinks.
As I make my way back to the table I notice that she seems to
be wincing a little and is rubbing her neck. <br><br>
I ask her for probably the tenth time, if she's really
okay. She smiles back at me and gives me the tenth answer
that she's fine, just a little shook up. I set the drinks
down and stand behind her. I tell her that I'll try to
massage the kink out of her neck (again it's the least
I could do :) ). I feel the soft skin float under my fingers
as I gently probe for tight spots. <br><br>
I again get a whiff of her perfume this time mixed with the
slight smell of shampoo as my hands go further down her shoulders.
I watch her eyes close and listen to a small moan come from
her lips as I press harder. I do my best to make sure I hit every
muscle as I want to prolong my contact with this goddess.
She leans her head forward as I work down her upper back and
I fight with myself to not go too far. As I finish I can't
help myself as I give a light kiss on the back of her neck.
<br><br>
Her head slowly rose and turned to look me in my eyes, those
big brown eyes were locked on mine and I found myself speechless.
I again felt out of control of my own actions as I leaned in
and gave her a kiss. It was soft at first, followed quickly
by tongues dancing with each other. I could hear her breathing
get deeper and faster as we finally broke our kiss. <br><br>
"You know, I can give a much better massage, if we could
go someplace more private" I tell her with a hazy smile
as I was still recovering from the kiss. I'm not usually
so bold, but this woman had me on fire. I saw a moment of calculation
flash across her face as I watched her slowly grab her purse
and stand up. <br><br>
I don't remember much else until we were outside next
to my car and she gave me the best hug / kiss combination I've
ever had. It screamed sexuality to my body as my senses went
into overload. The taste of her kiss, the softness of her
chest against mine, the firmness of her ass in my hand, the
texture of her hair in my other hand as we did our best to squeeze
ourselves into one body form. <br><br>
What happens next... Hmmmmm <br><br>
Help me come up with a great ending ;)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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