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Sometimes its hard   1/24/2020

No its not, just say im not into it


1 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Yankees51841 45 M
5  Articles
No thanks   1/20/2020

No thanks for for points


1 Comments, 25 Views, 20 Votes ,1.85 Score
Tiptoingtony 44 M
2  Articles
Honestly   1/19/2020

Just be honest and truthful about everything and it will go alot easier


1 Comments, 18 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Silence is deafening   1/17/2020

I know it’s not always possible to respond to every message if you’re not interested. I get it. And I will be respectful, and never be abusive. But even a quick little , “no thank you” really helps out sometimes. Does anyone agree?


8 Comments, 64 Views, 17 Votes ,4.82 Score
Worst "no"   1/15/2020

What would be the worst eay someone could say no?


1 Comments, 42 Views, 26 Votes ,2.70 Score
thefonz224 38 M
4  Articles
Is it better to be direct or slowly ghost someone?   1/9/2020

I prefer to be direct and told directly what someone is thinking.


5 Comments, 30 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
swman2 53 M
1  Article
Why   1/7/2020

Why when you get flirt and viewed do they then not respond on massaging


4 Comments, 25 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
Not what you expected   1/7/2020

Has anyone chatted with someone on here and when you met they looked nothing like their picture.


4 Comments, 29 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
Not what you thought   1/7/2020

Have you met anyone that didnt look like there profile pic.


3 Comments, 33 Views, 20 Votes ,2.87 Score
Ellsfun43 38 M
5  Articles
Points   1/2/2020

No thanks. Just need points


3 Comments, 26 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
I_like_lollipos2 31 F
1  Article
help me please   1/2/2020

How does say no without sounding rude?


14 Comments, 85 Views, 26 Votes ,3.89 Score
onebigpickle 40 M
5  Articles
Gay guys flirting with Straights   1/1/2020

What is your go to response for letting a gay guy down?


4 Comments, 24 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
MercedCouple209 53 C
47  Articles
So you think you can fuck me better?   1/1/2020

Just because you comment on my video that you can fuck me better dont mean you ever will because I have a conection with my man and thats something you will never have with me so that kind of comment want get you anything but blocked


4 Comments, 44 Views, 22 Votes ,2.29 Score
Pullmytrigger55 49 M
12  Articles
Screwed   12/29/2019

That's what SeekingTS does to u


2 Comments, 18 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
MercedCouple209 53 C
47  Articles
Married Cheating Men And Woman   12/26/2019

Well mostly men in this case <br><br> I dont care if you want to cheat on your spouse for what ever reason <br><br> Thats on you and the karma that comes with it <br><br> But the 1st thing we do when talking with someone on here is let them know thats a deal breaker and will not meet cheating men and woman <br><br> But you must really be a special ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 20 Votes ,2.36 Score
Couple2Grow69 39 C
8  Articles
Boundries   12/15/2019

How important are broundries for you?


4 Comments, 43 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
should be enough   12/14/2019

i would hope a woman saying no is always honored


1 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
samiam473 43 M
2  Articles
just say it   12/14/2019

Its ok to say no thanks when you are approached by members, it will not only let them move on but it keeps you from getting constant messages from a member you are not interested in


1 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
Co worker   12/13/2019

How do you turn down a co worker and not make things awkward atvwork.


4 Comments, 15 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
strogen69 52 M
5  Articles
Common courtesy?   12/12/2019

Is it me or have the younger generation aka 24 and younger not been taught common courtesy? When you send a message on IM here to the younger generation, it seems like half of them never respond. Ladies... even if you're not interested in chatting, it's called common courtesy to at least respond back either way. Not interested? Totally fine, but could you take 30 seconds to respond back ...


7 Comments, 57 Views, 15 Votes ,1.91 Score
MercedCouple209 53 C
47  Articles
How many times do you have to say no thanks!   12/12/2019

Sorry I am not into BBC <br><br> And I am not into 18 year old boys and dont care how big your dick is <br><br> But how many times must I say no thanks before I just get tired and block you? <br><br> Well it was about 10 this time


2 Comments, 34 Views, 14 Votes ,2.02 Score
POINTS POINTS POINTS POINTS.   12/9/2019

POINTS POINTS POINTS POINTS.


1 Comments, 7 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Childish insults   11/29/2019

I am constantly amazed as what passes for mature behavior on this site. Recently a man sent a message, I politely said no thank you and (while not necessary )I explained why. His response was write an insult. For the men complain that women don't respond your emails or instant messages this is part of the reason. Just because we are also using this site does not mean we don't want ...


10 Comments, 91 Views, 28 Votes ,4.88 Score
Fido3429 49 M
8  Articles
Try and be polite   11/22/2019

Rejection sucks, the worst rejection is when you get no response after talking to someone. At least if you don't want to get together, have the kindness to tell them.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
elenaphant 30 F
2  Articles
Reading Messages = Viewing Profile???   11/14/2019

I'm running into so many problems with members I'm not interested in, because they send me messages and I read them, which gives them the notification that I "viewed their profile" when I literally don't know who the fuck they are.... Then some people call me on it saying shit like "what, you shy?" "I see you're looking at my profile, why won't you say ...


7 Comments, 73 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
Points   11/13/2019

I think the point system needs fixing. If you're wanting to chat with someone and they just left the line or don't reply you're screwed out of points


7 Comments, 66 Views, 24 Votes ,5.86 Score
Needfunu2 51 M
6  Articles
Being polite to single males?   11/12/2019

Which is better...telling a single male "No thanks" or just ignoring him?


5 Comments, 37 Views, 11 Votes ,1.11 Score
Fitandhornyinwi 45 M
2  Articles
Why are people so rude?   11/11/2019

Seems like a lot of people haven’t mastered the art of saying “hey, not interested.” They either say something nasty or ignore you completely when they aren’t interested. I don’t get it. Did I somehow offend them by showing interest? I don’t get it at all. I’m 100% straight and have had bi/gay guys message me. I simply say “hey, not thing. Good luck.” They handle it just fine. ...


2 Comments, 24 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
No means no   11/11/2019

come on men, is it really that hard? <br><br> I still have women almost shocked that I can take rejection in stride. <br><br> Women, what do you do with men who are too persistent?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 10 Votes ,1.39 Score
Difference   11/11/2019

A woman says no thanks to a guy and he can take it and move along. But a guy meets a woman has sex on NS basis and she can’t take no to anything more.


3 Comments, 26 Views, 13 Votes ,1.30 Score