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Trying to move on 1/31/2006
So I am finding it difficult to fully move on from a past relationship
that lasted for almost 2 1/2 years. Has anyone else had this
problem? I do care for her still, but she has her guard up
and doesnt want us to try "us" again so I have
accepted that and attempted to move on. My main problem
is that I lost a lot of my confidence after the break up. I
got comfortable with being in a ...
1 Comments, 127 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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You know what needs to be done...Just do it!!! 1/31/2006
I hear this issue come up with so many defferent people,
so I thought I'd put in my 2 cents...
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So many people know their relationship is over (and probabably
has been for quite a while), but they think it will get easier
if they wait... Or they want their significant other to
make a mistake, and give them an excuse... You can't
keep ignoring the problem!! You just end up ...
0 Comments, 404 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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How do you tell someone you dont wanna b with them anymore 1/30/2006
Questions in the title.
0 Comments, 161 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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It's the bravest thing I've ever done. 1/29/2006
We were both way too young when we met. For both of us it was
our first relationship. After college, when you start
working, life changes. Our lives changed in very different
ways. It's sad, but there's no reason to spend
the rest of your life with someone you don't get along
with all that well, is there? But it took me 3 years to realize
this. 7 1/2 years sharing our lives together. 5 ...
1 Comments, 161 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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It's hard 1/26/2006
I find that it's very hard to do, I recently broke up
with someone and it hurts like hell. He really wasn't
the one for me yet I fell in love with him. I still think about
him all the time and sometimes I want to give him a call. I
realize that he really didn't love me as he said he did.
But it still hurts. It's hard to move on when there isn't
someone else to replace him. I guess that's ...
1 Comments, 158 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Is breaking up really hard to do? 1/26/2006
In my opinion it is one of the hardest things that any one
person can do. I have been in a relationship for quite a long
time now, three years to be exact. I love her still, but I
just don't feel the same way I did when we were going
out two years ago. One part of it is that she moved about 400
miles away to go to school, the other being she changed.
I wouldn't say in a bad way, but just in ...
1 Comments, 206 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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10 Husbands, Still a Virgin 1/26/2006
A lawyer married a woman who had previously divorced ten
husbands.
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On their wedding night, she told her new husband, "Please
be gentle, I'm still a virgin."
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"What?" said the puzzled groom.
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"How can that be if you've been married ten times?"
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"Well, Husband #1 was a sales representative: he
kept telling me how great it was ...
2 Comments, 244 Views,
23 Votes
,6.05 Score
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why 1/25/2006
why is it so hard breaking up with a girl friend?
1 Comments, 139 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Bipolar Man? 1/23/2006
Met a wonderful man here on SeekingTS. Thought things were great.
Neither of us were looking for commitment (I thought),
but a series of new, non-judgemental friends. That was
all I ever wanted.
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I was a little surprised, how speedily things advanced,
friendship-wise. Particularily since he claimed strong
feelings for me, far before I would admit to anything. Guess
I belong ...
2 Comments, 231 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Cutting off 1/23/2006
the whole "can we still be friends line" is crap.
It can't work because a good breakup is a rare. Once
u have broken the other person off, make sure u stay broken.
Still talking to your ex will only bring about unnecessary
drama.
2 Comments, 255 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Getting over somebody? 1/21/2006
Okay, I had spoken about the following earlier and it was
mentioned that I should put this into an article, so I am.
Here it is:
So - theres alot of talk about about whether person X has
gotten over person Y. When people discontinue things,
advice comes from every which way saying "get over
them quick!" But what really is "getting over
someone" and whats the point? I think too ...
1 Comments, 243 Views,
13 Votes
,4.82 Score
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What makes it so hard? 1/21/2006
I have a problem.I tried to break up with my girlfriend of
just over a year yesterday and couldnt even get the words
out of my mouth. so needless to say i am still with her. how
do i let her go without tearing her heart out?
5 Comments, 145 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Best way to heal a breakup 1/20/2006
Well, in terms of what I have gone through in my life, I would
say that the best way to get over a break up, is "Time".
Time is a healing factor for many areas like when you break
a leg. Doctors are a big role in that area to heal it, but over
time, it does get better. The leg may not be back to its normal
strength when it is fully healed, but you can use it again.
Same goes for a breakup, ...
0 Comments, 102 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Why is it...... 1/20/2006
Why is it when you plan the perfect rendezvous and everything
you planned goes accordingly, you even have a wonderfully
passionate night in bed together.....why is it you can
never get her to return your calls?
I mean, Im not stalking her or anything, but come on. I'm
a good looking guy!
2 Comments, 241 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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my top 10 excuses from breaking up 1/17/2006
10- you look like your mother
9- your sister does it better
8- it's not you, it's my wife
7- having is a mistress is outta my budget
6- i dont like your tits
5- im seeing someelse (not really..i just want to meet more
chicks at SeekingTS.com)
4- im getting deported (not really..i just want to meet
more chicks at SeekingTS.com)
3- too many taxes
2- I prefer ...
1 Comments, 154 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Yeh right 1/15/2006
Breaking up is easy?
A lady posted that hmmmm Easy if you got no soul.
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I don`t think so if you are classed as a decent human being.The
love of my life dumped me its been 8 months now and I still
miss her and always will.When ive also broke up realationships
I find myself feeling really guilty as dont wont to hurt
anyone.Is this just me or should I join the band waggon of ...
1 Comments, 175 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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tough break ups 1/10/2006
I've never been good at break ups.
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0 Votes
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Karma sucks!!! 1/9/2006
It happenned two days before Christmas. I can still vividly
remember how crisp and cold the morning was, and how perfectly
deliciouse the donuts lying infront of me for breakfast
looked. The previouse night's conversation was still
playing in my head leaving an unpleasant aftertaste in
the pit of my stomach. I wanted to talk about it before he
left to go to the gym, when he opened his mouth ...
0 Comments, 372 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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keeping it together 1/9/2006
i find that when i've been with a girl for a few months
things start to cool down, i start to lose interest and my
eyes start to wander, i feel guilty about it sometime, but
i just cant help it, i always feel like i could do better that
what ive got, so i end up breaking up with them , but i never
have a reason why to give them. does that make me a bad person?
1 Comments, 115 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Do business elsewhere? 1/8/2006
I am a car salesman by profession. A few months ago, one of
my collegues had a live-in girlfriend that broke up with
him and bought a vehicle from a different dealership that
sells the same new vehicle brand as we do. To me, this act
of spite and malice was far worse than throwing all of belongings
into the street. Can't people be civil enough to separate
business from pleasure. I put ...
0 Comments, 357 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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break up in person? 1/8/2006
what do you guys think is the best way to break up, over the
phone or in person?
0 Comments, 254 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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Getting Over You 1/6/2006
Getting Over You
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Another day has pass, my feelings are still the same. It
has been a while, since I've said your sweet name. Why
is it like this? What did I do wrong? When will these feelings
end? I've waited far too long. My thoughts are fading,
the answers I can't find. Damn! how can I get, you out
of my mind? The words are running out, there's nothing ...
0 Comments, 134 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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No surrender. 1/5/2006
I dump you. You dump me. Get over it. Life goes on.
3 Comments, 343 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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trouble 1/3/2006
OK now I know that this is a sore subject but what the hell.
i have benn kinda seeing this beautiful lady for awhile
now and at first we had the understanding that it was going
to be a physical realtionship and nothing more. well now
she is wanting to introduce me to her family what in the hell
should I do.
3 Comments, 171 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Why do people get depressed after they break up? 1/3/2006
For example: My girlfriend got dumped by this man, who I
really didn't care for anyway, and she was in tears
for weeks, didn't want to go to work or out anywhere.
I think that is just crazy. Hell it's not like he died
you got dumped get over it. My friends think that I am a bitch
because I go out the following weekend and start talking
to men. For me the way I see it is if he really ...
2 Comments, 151 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Is it hard to do? 1/1/2006
Breaking up can be the hardest thing to do, but how do you
do it properly. We think taht you need to confront the person
and let them know exactly what is failing in the relationship
and see if it continues before ending it.
2 Comments, 208 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Hard to break up 12/30/2005
I s it hard to break up with someone you have been with for
a long time. i know it is for me to do it and it should be hard
for you if you were really in love with that person. Why are
there so many relationships out there that are just going
downhill. Why are there so many people getting divorces
after just 1 year of marriage. Please tell me why people?
2 Comments, 145 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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When do I tell her 12/29/2005
I have realized I love my wife...but I am no longer IN LOVE
with her. Do I tell her before or after the holidays????
and How do I go about telling her? She is already in counseling
for depression, being negative, and pessimistic....but
on meds. IS there a decent way to get it across??
2 Comments, 255 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Hah 12/23/2005
Yea thats why I joined this site, just to get the sex out of
it.
0 Comments, 132 Views,
6 Votes
,1.09 Score
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Staying Friends 12/21/2005
When I was younger (and a lot more idealistic), I would always
want to maintain the friendship when a romantic relationship
ended. Now I have a different philosophy. After a significant
relationship ends, there should be no contact for about
a year. After that, if you reconnect as friends, then you
have a friendship that's worth something. If not,
then maybe you're better off remaining ...
2 Comments, 218 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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